Well, I'll try here and see if anyone can help me... 
I just purchased BitDefender Antivirus 2009. Brand new. The updates are a whopping 50,464 Kb! At my slow dialup connection speed, that's about 7-8 hours...that is, if all went well, which it won't. My connection simply will NOT maintain a download that long. Not possible. I get about 2 or 3 hours or so, and then something will happen, there will be an error, I'll get disconnected, and my computer will forget all that it just spent the last 2 hours downloading. I've tried 2 or 3 times, and I ain't tryin' anymore. This is why I bought it in the box at the store, I knew I wouldn't be able to download it. Besides, this is an awful lot of updates....should there really be that much from between the time my disk was produced and now???
At any rate, is there any way I can cut the download up into more manageable bites? If I can't update, this program will be useless, and I'll have to go get Norton...