I accidently clicked add exception on a bad link and Bitdefender won't let me remove it the option is greyed out.
On my end, it's fine. Even your ability to Add an Exception is greyed out. It may be simplistic, but try a system restart and see if it highlights correctly. I did get a BD pop-up in blocking that page, I would also at least run a Quick Scan, just to be sure.
If needed, you could run a Repair and see if that restores those options.
Let us know how it goes,
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