Support issues

I am at a loss how to get effective support.

Initial Support from Bitdefender was good, and have Family Pack running on three Windows PCs, four Android Tablets, four Android phones and one apple phone.

However, I am having no luck at all resolving any of the issues I raise - including:

1. 
   Numerous notifications that "Parental SMS app disabled on <owner's> unknown device.  Parental SMS application was disabled on <device type id>".  I have elected not to use this feature, but I am being spammed with notifications daily for two devices.  I cannot get a resolution to this. "My colleagues can provide you with more details about it."........
   
2. 
   Completely unusable Anti-Theft - Locate, and Parental Control - Child Location features.  They never seem to report correctly, except when at home.  Location on Mobile or other network connection appears randomly, never on request, and features within the product contradict themselves as to the Child's/Device location/Location-Time.  Again, I cannot get good answers to these issues.....
   
3. 
   Parental Control on one PC.  It appears installed, I have 3 devices assigned to one child, but the location is never offered for the third device, only the other two.  I've had chat support call on this but cannot get it resolved.  I am sent around in circles of installing Security (it's already installed) and selecting the device on the child's card (it's already selected)....
   
4. 
   Inability to resolve from where the 'Attempted Access on Restricted Categories' message is coming from.  Without being able to drill into the data and identify the offending website how can I block or permit?  - "I will escalate this situation to my colleagues from the second level of support. After that, our technicians will send you an email in the shortest time possible regarding the issue presented.".......
   
5. 
   After Chats I get a 'ticket' follow up that says more information is required from me, but no request or explanation.  Also, the ticket numbers are not linked to anything, I can't find any 'ticket' system, I don't get replies when I follow up, then I get emails saying ticket will be closed!
   1. 
      Please be informed that you have an open Customer Care request, ticket no: yyyymmddhhmmssnn, that requires further information from your side to complete. Since we have not heard back from you in a while, please reply to our last e-mail with the necessary information so that we can resolve your issue(s) in the shortest possible time.
      
   2. 
      Our records indicate that you currently have an open Customer Care request with us, ticket no: yyyymmddhhmmssnn. As we have not heard from you in 5 days, we are in the process of closing this ticket. Should you still need our assistance or additional information, simply reply to this message and your ticket will promptly be re-opened. 
      
6. 
   I have other problems, questions, but I daren't ask now, until the above gets sorted.
   

Is there a ticket management system, where I can see progress of support calls, and manage them?  If not why not, and if so, why aren't the ticket numbers in emails hyperlinked to the system?

What type of support contact should I make to actually get these issues resolved rather than being passed onto ethereal 'colleagues'?

Mike